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How Divorce Affects Your Home and Real Estate

Posted by Josh Valentine | Dec 16, 2020

A big question for those going through a divorce is what will happen with their home or other real estate. We all need a roof over our heads. Yet homes are much more practical and sentimental than simple shelter. These days especially, we depend on our home to live and work. A home inherited, constructed, or renovated can also hold memories and amenities, more valuable to one divorcing spouse than the other. For many of us, equity in a home or other real estate is also the most valuable asset we have.

Equal, or Equitable, Division

The simple answer to the question of what happens to a home in a divorce is that the law divides it. The basic property division in divorce is equal, whether that property is real estate, intangible assets like stocks and bonds, or vehicles and other personal property. The law begins by presuming that each spouse gets half of the assets (and half of the debt, by the way). The law may then adjust an equal division so that it is instead equitable, meaning fair under special circumstances. Those circumstances can include:

  • when one spouse brought the asset to the marriage;
  • when one spouse is disabled or otherwise incapable of earning income;
  • when one spouse inherited the asset or received it by gift.

Allocating Assets

Yet obviously, one cannot divide a home as one divides a bank account or retirement account. Half a home is nothing if division means literally cutting it in half. Instead, the spouse who finds the home more desirable or suitable may negotiate to retain it. Of course, that means giving up other assets that represent half the equity in the home. One spouse may thus keep the home while the other spouse gets more of the investments or retirement. If divorcing spouses cannot agree, and neither makes a compelling argument about why they should not get the home, then the trial judge is likely to order the home sold and the net proceeds divided.

The Help You Need

You can see that what seems simple initially can get complicated quickly. Negotiation and advocacy over a marital home, including its valuation, can be the most critical step in managing a divorce. Proper advocacy can help both spouses see the benefit and agree on an acceptable consent judgment. Poor advocacy or no representation can result in a wasteful and hurtful mess. Call (704) 470-2440 for the skilled legal team at the law firm of Caulder & Valentine or go online for an appointment in Shelby or Gastonia. The lawyers at Caulder & Valentine know how to make divorce work.

About the Author

Josh Valentine

You could say Josh has a God-given ability for sustaining long-term relationships. He and his wife first met in elementary school and went to Gardner Webb University (GWU) together, where they tied for number 1 in their class. Then, they both started law school on the same day of their graduation and got married during their first semester. He has also known his law partner Blake Caulder since Kindergarten. Theirs is the perfect partnership. “He’s the brake; I am the accelerator,” Josh says. Both Josh and his wife attended an innovative program at Charlotte Law School that allowed them to complete law school in two years instead of the typical three. His wife graduated and passed the North Carolina bar at age 20, becoming one of the youngest attorneys in the state. He readily admits she’s smarter than him. Of course, Josh went on to pass the North Carolina State Bar himself and later the South Carolina State Bar. While in school, he was Associate Editor of the Law Review and received accolades like Phi Delta Phi International Legal Honor Society membership, Order of the Crown, Pro Bono Honors, CALI Awards (highest grade). In his career as a lawyer, he has been admitted to the United States Federal Court for the Western District of North Carolina, is a member of the American Association of Premier DUI Attorneys, and completed training for DWI Detection & Standardized Field Sobriety Testing. Josh has also been named to the Top 40 Under 40 for Criminal Defense by The National Trial Lawyers, the Business North Carolina 2019 Legal Elite for Criminal Defense, and the 10 Best Attorneys for Client Satisfaction by the American Institute of Criminal Law Attorneys three years in a row (2016, 2017, and 2018). Community involvement has been important to Josh all his life. In high school, he participated in building a Holocaust museum that has become internationally regarded. He and his wife are actively engaged in animal rescue, which currently means seven cats and two kittens. He served in prison ministry and assisted with fundraiser banquets there, and he provides pro bono and reduced fee legal services to those in need. As if all of that weren’t enough, Josh also mentors high risk youth and helps with his church’s youth group. He participates in other community volunteer projects involving construction, remodeling, drywall, painting, and landscaping. He’s an active student of the Bible and has traveled to Israel, Brazil, and Europe for mission work. No one can say Josh isn’t a well-rounded individual. In his spare time, he likes to play softball, basketball, and tennis, and he can play the piano and trombone. Sometimes on weekends, believe it or not, he enjoys pouring and finishing concrete with friends who own a concrete and grading business. In his law practice, Josh has made it a point to develop positive relationships with officers, clerks, and district attorneys, which has proven invaluable in delivering positive results for his clients. It’s important to him to both listen to his clients and fight for them. Law enforcement officers have important responsibilities to keep our communities safe and uphold the law, but one of the responsibilities of attorneys is to make sure officers do their job correctly. Josh considers it his job to hold them accountable for their actions. Josh is a person of deep faith. He knows that the established order of our universe and strength of America’s Judeo-Christian influenced court system is built on God’s word. His passion to serve each client with innovation, excellence and integrity is a byproduct of his faith. When asked why he became a lawyer, Josh says, “All through my life, I have personally witnessed family members and very close friends endure divorce, child custody battles, bankruptcy, civil lawsuits, and even fraudulent criminal accusations. I both saw and experienced the stress such events can place on an individual, and I realized that everyone, at some point in their life, needs hope, comfort, and encouragement. In each one of those situations, the person who was best situated to provide that vital support was their lawyer. So that’s why I became an attorney. I understand what you are going through, and I’m here to help you. Our office is focused on meeting your needs and guiding you through what may be the most difficult time of your life.” Education: Charlotte School of Law J.D., Magna Cum Laude Class Rank – 21 of 328 Associate Editor of Charlotte School of Law Law Review Certification and Concentration in Employment Law Phi Delta Phi International Legal Honor Society Order of the Crown Pro Bono Honors CALI Awards (Highest Grade)—Lawyering Process I and Contracts I Full Scholarship Gardner-Webb University B.S. in Accounting, Summa Cum Laude Distinguished Senior Student Award – Highest GPA Alpha Sigma Lambda National Honorary Society Bar Admissions: North Carolina State Bar

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