Divorce Process in North Carolina

If you are considering filing for a divorce in North Carolina, it can be helpful to understand the process beforehand so that you know what to expect. A divorce can be relatively straightforward or complex, depending on the circumstances. Most divorces require the couple to sort out a number of issues, including: 

If the couple can agree on these issues in a divorce, the process can go forward relatively quickly. However, if there are disputes, the divorce could take much longer to be finalized. Talk to us about the process for filing for a divorce and how to make the divorce process as painless as possible for you and your children. 

Overview of Divorce Process in North Carolina

The divorce process in North Carolina is broken down into the following general steps: 

  1. Filing of a complaint for absolute divorce. 
  2. Divorce papers are served on the spouse. 
  3. After 30 days from service, the moving party requests a court date. 
  4. The Court holds a hearing for divorce.
  5. The Court enters a judgment for absolute divorce. 

Residency Requirement

To file for any divorce in North Carolina, at least one of the spouses has to be a resident of North Carolina for at least six months before filing for divorce.  

Separation Requirement

Absolute divorce in North Carolina requires the couple to have been separated for a year. One spouse generally has to live separately in a different residence than the other spouse. If you separated for less than a year and moved back in for a few months, you may have to restart the 12-month separation to file for divorce.

Filing and Service of the Complaint

The formal process of a divorce begins with filing a “Complaint for Absolute Divorce” with the court. The spouse who files the complaint is known as the Plaintiff and the responding spouse is the Defendant. After filing the complaint and paying any filing fees, a copy of the complaint must be served on the other spouse by the sheriff or other approved forms of service. 

Setting a Court Date

After 30 days from the date of service, the Plaintiff can request a court date from the Clerk of the Court's office. A notice of hearing must also be sent to the Defendant ten days before the hearing.  

Divorce Hearing

During the divorce hearing, the judge will hear testimony from each spouse to make sure the requirements have been met, there was proper service and notification, and that all legal and financial matters (child custody and visitation, property division, etc.) have been settled. 

The court does not need to hear about why the divorce is justified or why one spouse is seeking a divorce. North Carolina is a “no-fault” state for divorce. No-fault divorce means that a spouse does not have to prove the fault of any party to justify divorce.

Judgment for Absolute Divorce

When the judge enters the judgment for absolute divorce, the couple is officially and legally divorced.  

Uncontested Divorce

In an uncontested divorce, the couple is not disputing property, child custody, or other issues. The couple can come to an agreement on any divorce-related issues before going to court and the court will generally grant the divorce during the court date. 

If the couple cannot agree on all the terms of a divorce, they may be able to go through mediation to come to an agreement instead of having the court decide the issues. If the couple still cannot agree on the divorce, then the divorce is not considered “uncontested” and the court may have to conduct hearings to settle any disputes. 

Contested Divorce

A contested divorce can take much longer than an uncontested divorce. Depending on the complexity of the divorce issues, it can take months or longer for a highly contested divorce to be settled. Contested divorces may involve high-asset divorces, child custody battles, or disputes over alimony. If you suspect your divorce may be contested, contact us as soon as possible so that you can take steps to prepare for a divorce and protect your family and your property. 

Family Law Attorneys in North Carolina

One of the best resources you can have while navigating a family law issue is an experienced family law attorney on your side to advocate for your rights, explain the process, and let you know all your options in family court. If you have any questions about a family law issue or dispute in North Carolina, contact the Caulder & Valentine Law Firm, PLLC. Contact us online or by phone at 704-470-2440 today for a consultation.